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Are You a People Pleaser? Learning to Say NO
You’re a people pleaser, and you know it. But isn’t being there for your friends a wonderful thing? Shouldn’t wanting to please the people you love most be considered an admirable and honorable thing? And helping others in need is a service of the heart,...
BIG NEWS!! My latest book, Messy Intentionality, is getting RE-released!
There have been some changes and, all-in-all, the reason it ever had to be Re-released has become a blessing of sorts. But I’m jumping ahead… Let me start with January 1, 2017, the day my book, Messy Intentionality (recently re-titled...
More Intentionality in 2017!
As 2017 approaches, most people will either make or think about making a New Year’s resolutions. New Year’s resolutions are beneficial in that they are growth minded, but often we stay clear of them because most likely we will fail – and then we are left with self-loathing and indifference. But for those who have the resiliency to press through the cycle of hope, defeat, and find hope again – will see real, sustainable change can occur.
Messy Intentionality Book Release with Excerpt
I wrote Messy Intentionality as the second edition of Finding Me Again, but it took on a whole new form and became a book in itself. There were aspects of Finding Me Again that I felt fell short. Thus, Messy Intentionality was born. You don’t have to live very long on...
Is It Time For A Reset?
When life gives us lemons, just make lemonade. Easier said than done, right? Life is full of ups and downs. When the messy, unsatisfying, and unaware life is too much, we often wish we could reset and start over, or at least get a second chance to get things right....
7 Daily Questions to Ask Yourself for Emotional Clarity
Everyday life is far from utopia. Losses, unmet longings, and disappointments alter the original intent of life. Messy happens randomly and vicariously to the innocent and not so innocent, alike, as we all journey through this life. I believe we were created to be...